in response to mefjr79...   The Best thing I can tell you is to try temp work; go to staffing companies.  They may have temp- to perm work.This helped me get back on my feet.Also go to unions to see if they are hiring also. Stay in a shelter because it cold and go to soup kitchens at churches.And don't lose contact with your child.   I pray that things will get better for you.! God bless